sorry..i just have to vent out what I feel..ayaw ko na munang umiyak as I had enough..
Throughout our preparations since January..
we've been doing everything on our own..
we did not ask for help...
nor were there offers of help, too...
bakit ngayong kung kelan malapit ng matapos...
naririnig namin ang "sana ganyan, sana ganito.."
hay! all i can say is that..
"sana you told us beforehand when we're starting pa lang para naconsider namin.."
"sana maisip niyo na this is our day.."
"sana tulungan niyo na lang kami at wag ng dumagdag pa sa pressure"
I never thought it'll be this hard...
daming pressures...
kainggit ibang w @ wies..they have their families by their side..
extending help kahit na di hinihingi..
asking how are they doing with their preps
oh well..ganyan talaga ang buhay..
how i wish makapag-leave ako anytime from work para ma-accomplish ang mga marami-rami pang to-do's..
with barely 3 months left..dami pang gagawin..i hate to think pero nagpapanic na ata ako..hay!
sad..so sad talaga..pero kaya ko ito!
8 comments:
hi sis! Medyo sad nga yung post mo per I'm sure naman everything will work out for the best... Ganon yata talaga, walang totally smooth sailing na preparations, specially for a special even like your wedding. Siguro hindi pa lang nare-realize nung naga-add ng pressure sa preps ninyo na nakakasama na sila ng loob but when they do, they will realize na your wedding is YOUR day and not theirs and will appreciate all the hard work you put into your special day! Kaya mo yan Mai! Keep smiling...
kaya mo yan mai! don't worry, ndi ka nag-iisa. bawat kwento ko sa magulang ko, sasabihin nila "ay, ndi maganda" or "ay, magastos lang yon" .. lol! pramis, nakakainis nga kaya ndi na lang ako nagkukwento.. linya pa ng mom ko "sila nga lang ang nag-ayos yan, pinabayaan namin sila" pero pag nagkukwento ako, daming comment nun hehe. ganun tlga pag matanda, they can't help it. lol! basta cool ka lang, pakinggan mo din sila (baka meh point naman diba) pero mas ipriority ang gusto nyong 2. *hugs* good luck!!
thanks heidi and gewi for the comforting words..i guess, i'm a bit ok na though la pang solution hehe! atska baka masyado ko rin sigurong nipapanic ang sarili ko..hehe! well, what can i do 3 months na lang kasi and yet dami pang dapat iaccomplish. Thanks ulit!
sister... *hugs*
we all get to a point when we're really down... but don't let that fool you na walang helping hand out there ready to support and comfort you...
3 months is still a long way to go... strategic planning lang yan...and other things siguro, you can let go of na...
and andito lang kami... ready to listen to you rant :)
*mwah*
thanks mec and shynne!
well i agree with what you said.. ewan ko ba bakit ako affected ng todo hehe! hay! thanks ulit..don't u worry, i'll really try to overcome what I'm feeling.
Mec..i know naman na di kayo magsasawa sa mga rants ko..sus! kayo pa! hehe seriously, thanks sis! buti na lang ang chikahan natin ay walang lagot.hehe!
Hi Elena,
I've been reading your posts here and I believe you did a good job in preparation for your wedding day. You just wanted to please everybody, kaya ka nagpapanic. Kaya masyado kang apektado sa mga comments nila. But this is your wedding day, though it is not perfect for your friends / relatives, I'm sure it would be perfect for you and Paul. =p
Baka nagpapanic na din cla, kaya dami nila comment.. Pro matagal pa naman e ... dami pang time.
God Bless!
- Leslie
hi mai! naku, wag mashadong dibdibin. oks lang yan sis! baka nga kasi malapit na din kaya feeling worried din sila. =)
Keep your head up girl. Dami ka naman na-accomplish eh. Even if others won't help, you still have each other. :)
The hard preparations will all be worth it not only on your wedding day but for the rest of your life together. Naks!
Take care lagi :)
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