Saturday, July 01, 2006

Kadramahan

Dear Blog ko,

Hmmm..at siyempre pa, wala na naman pala akong entry sayo kahapon. Well, wala tayong ibang sisisihin kundi ang The Waitress na kinaaliwan ko masyado kahapon nung umaga, ang GKNB at Wowowee nung tanghali na kung saan naswertehan ng GKNB contestant ang napakadaling category na FIFA countries kaya siya nanalo ng isang milyon, at ang pinakamatinding may sala kung bakit nabakante ka ay dahil sa nang-aakit na kama ko nung siesta time. Napasarap ang aking tulog at ako'y nagising ng mga 5:30 PM na ata.

Wag ka ng malungkot, nakita ko namang marami ang dumaan sayo kahapon. May mangilan-ngilan na nag-tag at nag-comment pa nga eh...yun nga lang mas marami pa rin ang mga Blurkers, hango sa Blog Jargon 101 ni Jigs na ang ibig sabihin ay: "a blog reader not posting comments, just lurking around quietly." Haha! oo alam kong marami kang blurkers kasi meron tayong sites referring to this page code at nakikita natin kung sinu-sino dumadaan. Well, masaya naman akong dumadaan sila at masulyapan lang nila ang aking daigdig eh natutuwa na ako pero higit na maghahatid ng ngiti saking labi at saya ang kanilang mga tags at comments, di ba?. Wehehe, di naman tayo nagdra-drama noh? Di naman masyado...

di naman kasing-drama ng buhay pag-ibig ng aking kaibigan......

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Nakakalungkot..tuluyan na ngang natuldukan ang tatlong taong relasyon ng isang malapit na kaibigan sa kanyang "akala mong mabait pero santo-santitong" bf. Well, pangungunahan ko na, sorry siya magiging biased talaga ako ngayon. Kaibigan ko ang niloko niya and I just feel bad of him having the guts to hurt a friend like that. Di naman kami close eh and I don't want to hear his side. At alam ko rin naman na wala akong pakialam pero sorry siya blog ko ito...sasabihin ko kung anong gusto kong sabihin mwahaha! :evil laugh:

I feel sad for my friend kasi alam kong she's still hurting and is struggling to move on. She still loves him inspite of the hurt and pain this guy caused her. Well ganun talaga, maraming natatanga sa pag-ibig. Na kahit pilit mong mag-iwan ng konting puwang at pag-ibig para sa sarili mo eh naibubuhos mo lahat sa minamahal mo.

My friend acknowledges her shortcomings as for sure, it would always takes two to tango in a relationship. Nakakainis lang..the guy doesn't have the balls to somehow admit his mistakes and instead puts solely the blame on my friend. Sabi niya nasasakal na siya kaya he wants some space to cool off and for him to compose himself. The relationship was indeed complicated..they were seeing each other, talking about the problem but still, the guy is confused pa rin daw. A month later, you would see this guy's friendster profile updated with a new girl's pictures alongside with my friend's pics, his status erratically changing from single to in a relationship to it's complicated. Oh well, he seemed so confused nga. It was just last week he admitted to my friend he has a new girl after a month they broke up.

My friend really was hurt and felt betrayed for the second time. It's just as bad as the first when he had a brief affair with an officemate prompting my friend to be less trusting of him which appeared to the guy.."pananakal".

I just can't believe na may nag-eexist ng mga ganyang guys. They cheat their girls, minsan dumped them tapos blame them kaya sila nagche-cheat? I-ju-justify pa nila kamalian nila. Hay sana lang they should know that a problem will never be a solution to another problem. If you hate what your girls are doing to you or if you find yourself falling out of love, it doesn't hurt and it won't make you less of a man to tell your girls how you really feel. Hindi yung kikimkimin lang tapos sa ibang outlet ilalabas ang sama ng loob and there goes the problem...problem pa rin.

Oh well, ganyan talaga ang buhay...

care to argue with my thoughts? sige mag-comment na. :D

18 comments:

♥ mommy author ♥ said...

SIS NAKAKAINIS AS IN YANG KWENTO MO! dapat sa mga ganung tao binabato habang sinusunog ng buhay!!! hahahaha! ;) evil laugh! ;)

sana nga maka-move on na ang friend mo, mahirap talaga pinagdadaanan nya, lalo pa ngaung, naguulan na, sus! kakapraning ang panahon tapos problematic pa! hirap nun

Anonymous said...

Kawawa naman yung friend mo.

Masyado namang rude yung guy, hindi naman ako siguro ako ganun kung magkakaroon ako ng relationship.

Anyway, nalaro ko na rin yung "The Waitress". Haha! Aliw.. pero madali akong maasar dun sa mga customer. Ang dami kong ginagawa e.. LOL

& said...

hmm. blurkers. love the word. hehe. galing na naman kay JIGS! grabe, daming alam nun ha.

ako ginagamit ko yung bloggigolo. tsaka may BAGO akong word! BLOGTOUR! it means - faily rounds of blog-reading, commenting and tagging as well.

ayun lang. :D Hehe di ko na binasa yung bf na ewan. baka mairita lang ako. >:) WAKOKOKK.

at isa pa. nakalimutan mo atang uminom ng gamot mo. KAUSAPIN daw ba yung BLOG! grabe. malala ka na!!!

http://utakgago.blogspot.com

Mai said...

kathy: hay! talaga kairita such kind of guys...hirap ngang mag-advice sa friend ko eh kasi she still really loves the guy so much.

jhed: naku don't bother to imitate or be that kind of guy ha pag in a relationship ka na rin...hehe!

vinkz: i know why kung bakit ayaw mong magcomment...tinamaan ka sa entry ko noh? wahaha! oist medyo tolerable pa pagkablog-addict ko noh...mas addict ka kaya. :p sige nga magblog turista nga rin ako weheheh!

Kiro said...

cge cge magcocoment na ako ahehehehe.... blurker mo ako paminsan minsan aheheheh... mahirap ren kase magcomment kaya tag na lang kase minsan ang dame kelangan puntahan...nakakatamad tuloy magcomment ahehehe... nice guys finish nga talaga kahit girls....nice girls finish last ahehe... the waitress ahihi dun pa nag blame aheheh wala lang

Kiro said...

oh yea i forgot to say... miss ko na pias and i wanna watch em shows ahehehhe at paano mo nalalaman ung na may blurkers ka?

alynn said...

dont have respect with those kind of people...paligoy ligoy pa sya, di na lang nya sabihin na may iba sya...i guess he said those things para di sya magmukha masama...hayyy...kurutin ko yan eh!hmp...

yuri said...

MEN are DOGS period!!!!!!

Mai said...

kiro: oo kasalanan ng the waitress hehe! uy nivote kita sa poll..kaw ba yung nagconcede for this week? how do i know of the blurkers? well, meron akong sites referring to my page and nakikita ko kung sino yung dumadaan dito sa blog ko everyday. :D

alynn: yup...siya na nga nakasakit and he doesn't want to admit na masama ang ginawa niya thus, naghuhugas kamay siya. hay!

yuri: short but malaman ha...is your bf still cheating you? hehehe!

Jigs said...

I will not argue but concur your sentiments. I have a friend who has so hurt and so betrayed by her bf that we wanted to kill him! I mean literally! The story is too long to explain, but all you need to know is that her ex-bf is asshole personified!

Saya talaga ng blog mo mai!!!

Mai said...

jigs: i controlled myself yesterday while I'm doing my entry not to use the word asshole...pero since nasabi mo na...asshole talaga siya!!!!! grrrr! hehehe!

j said...

hi Mai, comments warm the heart no? natutuwa din ako pag madami nag cocoment sa blog ko :)

Unknown said...

ang sarap ngang matulog lalo na pag umuulan...ako rin batugan sa kama...

i feel so sorry to your friend...sana madali siyang makapag adjust...anyway, maganda na yong naghiwalay sila kesa naman pag kasal na saka pa niya maranasan yon, di ba?

Mai said...

jairam: yup yup! comments and tags are one of my simple pleasures actually hehehe!

idealpinkrose: that's what I told my friend din..she should still be thankful kahit papano na nangyari yan na di pa sila married...may plans pa man din sila by 2008. Besides, kung sila talaga in the end, time will make a way. :D

tin-tin said...

hay naku! may mga ganyan talaga na lalaki.

tungkol naman sa first part ng kadramahan mo. isa ata ako sa dumaan na di nag-iwan ng comment. just checked if may update ka na :)

Haze said...

mai! paturo naman kung pano yung code na yun sa para malaman kung sino ang mga blog lurkers na yan. hehe tsaka if you have an idea kung san pa pwede makakuha ng bagong layout share na rin. =D

comment ako uli, d pa ako tapos basahin tong entry mo eh hehe

Mai said...

jenee: that's what my friend does...tries very hard na wag makipag-commnunicate with him..pero dahil nga aminado siyang natatanga sa pag-ibig, she finds herself talking to him again and again...hay!

tin: kaya ikaw be careful to give your heart away ha? if ever you'll fall in love, be sure to keep some for yourself so that if it goes bad (wag naman sana), composed ka pa rin to start anew. :D

haze: click mo yung link below my page where you see "links referring to these page", just copy the codes from there and paste it on your blog...you'll see the sites referring your page, more often, yung site owner nun ang blurker mo since nakalink sila sayo...gets mo ba? hehe medyo magulo ata ako.

and then sa layouts naman...try www.blogskins.com

tin-tin said...

always leaving something for myself ako, para di ganun kasakit :)